I was talking sex and intimacy with a group of married couples when the women became split on the issue of "holding our privates for ransom". The theme itself kept me pondering. I couldn't help but feel like the bad guy for not "giving it up" regardless of how I felt maltreated. The bible justifies us ladies continuously having sex with our husbands even if we feel that they are not deserving. Ofcourse if you deny your man sex, there's always the possiblity that he'll sleep with someone else.… Continue